The poster known as Wisdom was not wrong.?

That poster has an opinion and asked a question. We don't have to approve but if we as a LGBT community expect respect we have to give it in return. What I want to know is exactly how questions and answers are determined to be legitimate? I think we all see so many fluff stuff here, I'm starting to wonder if the legitimacy of this whole forum should be questioned, and that is my question. If you want to be heard do you believe that others of different views have the right to be heard as well?