How do u kno if girls like me for me?

i dont wanna sound ie but i kno i have looks..and a closet full of polo a nice jeep wrangler and the smile. im 19.. 6 foot and in great shape and ill date andtalk to girls but they never really talk or wanna talk but if we go out there always all over me i feel like a manakin and thats as far as it goes some body help i want more then just some fakers